For me I replaced ‘should’ language with ‘prefer’.
Eg. saying I shouldn’t smoke never inspired me to stop smoking.
But saying I prefer not to smoke helped me quit.
Now I’m simply not a smoker.
[Question] What small change in your self talk would make the world a better place if others adopted it too?
For me I replaced ‘should’ language with ‘prefer’.
Eg. saying I shouldn’t smoke never inspired me to stop smoking.
But saying I prefer not to smoke helped me quit.
Now I’m simply not a smoker.