I think this post is literally correct—I don’t think there should be a strong norm of responding to every comment.
But … I kind of think there should be a norm of trying to respond to substantive comments (where it’s OK not to do it, but that’s an “OK not to always meet the norm when it’s not convenient”, not “there isn’t even a norm here”). I don’t think post authors are just in the same position of “it’s nice to respond to things” as everyone else. I guess I think of it as analogous to giving a talk and not taking questions … sure, sometimes it’s the right call (and I’m supportive if someone really isn’t up for taking questions), but it’s really nice to try to clear some space for it if you can. And I worry that it’s easy to read this post as having the implicature of “just don’t bother responding if you don’t feel like it”.
This matters to me because I think we’re collectively into truth-seeking about important topics, and I think that often some of the best content comes in back-and-forths where people are arguing about detailed points. I worry that a culture where people are encouraged to not respond to comments and go write their next post instead leads to more talking past each other, less accountability, and ultimately less grounding of our culture and our knowledge.
e.g. say I make a post arguing X, and someone else asks a pointed question in the comments. If I don’t respond and this is fully socially endorsed it might be easy for readers to think “oh I’m sure Owen was just busy but he has a good response”. But then if I don’t have a good answer to the point it may be hard for the pointed question to get the social impact that it deserves, unless someone takes the time/effort to write up enough context that it can be a top-level post and rise to prominence itself.
(I don’t think responses to substantive comments always need to be substantive to be helpful. I think it’s great to just share “good point”, or “hmm, yeah, I want to think more about that”, or “I’ve never found this kind of argument compelling although I can’t put my finger on exactly why” if that’s where you’re at.)
It’s really nice when people engage with comments, especially with useful comments, but I worry by making it into a norm we’re losing more than we gain as a community. Will MacAskill for example has mentioned a couple of times that he finds posting on the Forum really uncomfortable because of the comments, and in his last post explicitly said that he wouldn’t respond to any comments. In other situations, people might have to decide between writing a second post about a different topic and responding to the comments on their first post.
I agree with you that responding to comments can be really valuable—even just responding to the one or two best comments! - but I can see a lot of situations where it doesn’t end up being the best use of someone’s time or mental health.
I totally agree that there are some times when it’s correct for people not to respond. But overall I think it’s pretty clearly good to have some norm for the reasons above. Because I think that a lot of good things come out of getting to the bottom of stuff, I’d typically prefer that people posted half as many things if it meant they’d engage properly with comments on those things. I really worry that with no norm here we might lose something important about EA culture.
I think the ideal equilibrium should incur both some pain from less-response-than-we-might-hope and some pain from people-feeling-obliged-to-respond. I think maybe we’re actually doing about right at that at the moment, on average? But I think it would better if everyone felt a bit of obligation to respond and nobody felt an overwhelming obligation to respond (and I guess right now it’s more like some people feel it as overwhelming and some don’t feel it at all).
I think this post is literally correct—I don’t think there should be a strong norm of responding to every comment.
But … I kind of think there should be a norm of trying to respond to substantive comments (where it’s OK not to do it, but that’s an “OK not to always meet the norm when it’s not convenient”, not “there isn’t even a norm here”). I don’t think post authors are just in the same position of “it’s nice to respond to things” as everyone else. I guess I think of it as analogous to giving a talk and not taking questions … sure, sometimes it’s the right call (and I’m supportive if someone really isn’t up for taking questions), but it’s really nice to try to clear some space for it if you can. And I worry that it’s easy to read this post as having the implicature of “just don’t bother responding if you don’t feel like it”.
This matters to me because I think we’re collectively into truth-seeking about important topics, and I think that often some of the best content comes in back-and-forths where people are arguing about detailed points. I worry that a culture where people are encouraged to not respond to comments and go write their next post instead leads to more talking past each other, less accountability, and ultimately less grounding of our culture and our knowledge.
e.g. say I make a post arguing X, and someone else asks a pointed question in the comments. If I don’t respond and this is fully socially endorsed it might be easy for readers to think “oh I’m sure Owen was just busy but he has a good response”. But then if I don’t have a good answer to the point it may be hard for the pointed question to get the social impact that it deserves, unless someone takes the time/effort to write up enough context that it can be a top-level post and rise to prominence itself.
(I don’t think responses to substantive comments always need to be substantive to be helpful. I think it’s great to just share “good point”, or “hmm, yeah, I want to think more about that”, or “I’ve never found this kind of argument compelling although I can’t put my finger on exactly why” if that’s where you’re at.)
It’s really nice when people engage with comments, especially with useful comments, but I worry by making it into a norm we’re losing more than we gain as a community. Will MacAskill for example has mentioned a couple of times that he finds posting on the Forum really uncomfortable because of the comments, and in his last post explicitly said that he wouldn’t respond to any comments. In other situations, people might have to decide between writing a second post about a different topic and responding to the comments on their first post.
I agree with you that responding to comments can be really valuable—even just responding to the one or two best comments! - but I can see a lot of situations where it doesn’t end up being the best use of someone’s time or mental health.
I totally agree that there are some times when it’s correct for people not to respond. But overall I think it’s pretty clearly good to have some norm for the reasons above. Because I think that a lot of good things come out of getting to the bottom of stuff, I’d typically prefer that people posted half as many things if it meant they’d engage properly with comments on those things. I really worry that with no norm here we might lose something important about EA culture.
I think the ideal equilibrium should incur both some pain from less-response-than-we-might-hope and some pain from people-feeling-obliged-to-respond. I think maybe we’re actually doing about right at that at the moment, on average? But I think it would better if everyone felt a bit of obligation to respond and nobody felt an overwhelming obligation to respond (and I guess right now it’s more like some people feel it as overwhelming and some don’t feel it at all).
I think it’s plausible that the norm is overall a bit too strong or a bit too weak at the moment. I feel pretty bad about “no norm” though.