Thanks that is super helpful and I think also super action-relevant. I can right away myself go to EA events keeping in mind:
To make sure I am listening proportionally (e.g. in a crowd of 4, not talking more than ~25% of the time, allowing time for silence/others to say something)
To make sure I spend some of the time I am talking to ask questions about the non-EA passions of those I am talking to—perhaps they love some activity I always have been curious about/wanting to learn
Thanks a lot for pushing back on my comment—I realize my phrasing above was clumsy/wrong—I should have written something more like “Being born in a Western country myself, the below observations are probably missing the mark but hopefully they can start a conversation to help make more people feel like they belong in EA.”
I’m not pushing back on your comment, nor do I think there’s anything wrong with it! In fact, I’m very appreciative of your effort to making a difference.
It’s just very interesting that what other people think is the problem and what actually impacts me are fundamentally different. I used to not want to believe that personal experience presents a significant barrier to mutual understanding, but being embedded in a crowd so different from myself really changed my mind on that cosmopolitan pipe dream.
The many subtle ways homogenous groups exclude outsiders are not unique to EA, it’s just amplified by the aforementioned unique dynamics and perhaps also higher level of neurodiversity. I’ve yet to see good, systematic solutions to this type of problems other than time and more exposure. I’m also much more concerned about other dimensions of homogeneity, like class, education background, age, or even lack of on the ground, non-EA job experience.
Thanks that is super helpful and I think also super action-relevant. I can right away myself go to EA events keeping in mind:
To make sure I am listening proportionally (e.g. in a crowd of 4, not talking more than ~25% of the time, allowing time for silence/others to say something)
To make sure I spend some of the time I am talking to ask questions about the non-EA passions of those I am talking to—perhaps they love some activity I always have been curious about/wanting to learn
Thanks a lot for pushing back on my comment—I realize my phrasing above was clumsy/wrong—I should have written something more like “Being born in a Western country myself, the below observations are probably missing the mark but hopefully they can start a conversation to help make more people feel like they belong in EA.”
I’m not pushing back on your comment, nor do I think there’s anything wrong with it! In fact, I’m very appreciative of your effort to making a difference.
It’s just very interesting that what other people think is the problem and what actually impacts me are fundamentally different. I used to not want to believe that personal experience presents a significant barrier to mutual understanding, but being embedded in a crowd so different from myself really changed my mind on that cosmopolitan pipe dream.
The many subtle ways homogenous groups exclude outsiders are not unique to EA, it’s just amplified by the aforementioned unique dynamics and perhaps also higher level of neurodiversity. I’ve yet to see good, systematic solutions to this type of problems other than time and more exposure. I’m also much more concerned about other dimensions of homogeneity, like class, education background, age, or even lack of on the ground, non-EA job experience.