I see how both are related to honestly saying things unprompted.
One difference is whether the honesty is necessary for someone to make an important decision.
If we want to increase our transparency as a community and reduce the risk of bad actors gaining undue influence, someone needs to say “I know no one asked, but I had a concerning experience with this person.” And then some people will hopefully say, “Thanks, I was going to make a deal with this person or rely on them for something, and now I won’t.”
But if someone just came up to me and said “I like how your body looks” or something, I would probably say, “I wasn’t planning on making any decisions relating to you and my body, and I continue to not plan on doing that. Why are you telling me? Who is this supposed to benefit?”
I see how both are related to honestly saying things unprompted.
One difference is whether the honesty is necessary for someone to make an important decision.
If we want to increase our transparency as a community and reduce the risk of bad actors gaining undue influence, someone needs to say “I know no one asked, but I had a concerning experience with this person.” And then some people will hopefully say, “Thanks, I was going to make a deal with this person or rely on them for something, and now I won’t.”
But if someone just came up to me and said “I like how your body looks” or something, I would probably say, “I wasn’t planning on making any decisions relating to you and my body, and I continue to not plan on doing that. Why are you telling me? Who is this supposed to benefit?”