I personally have a difficult time with this. Usually in these conversations they are looking for something specific, and it’s hard to know what I have to say that would be helpful for them. For me sometimes I see the big picture too much and it’s hard to find something meaningful out of that. Ex. I want to solve systemic issues that the person I’m talking to can’t change. I don’t know how to balance what’s realistic and helpful with what’s needed.
I personally have a difficult time with this. Usually in these conversations they are looking for something specific, and it’s hard to know what I have to say that would be helpful for them. For me sometimes I see the big picture too much and it’s hard to find something meaningful out of that. Ex. I want to solve systemic issues that the person I’m talking to can’t change. I don’t know how to balance what’s realistic and helpful with what’s needed.