I think maybe that the balance I’d strike here is as follows: we always respect nonintervention requests by victims. That is if the victim says “I was harmed by X, but I think the consequences of me reporting this should not include consequence Y” then we avoid intervening in ways that will cause Y. This is a good practice generally, because you never want to disincentivize people from reporting by making it so that them reporting has consequences they don’t want. Usually the sorts of unwanted consequences in question are things like “I’m afraid of backlash if someone tells X that I’m the one who reported them” or “I’m just saying this to help you establish a pattern of bad behavior by X, but I don’t want to be involved in this so don’t do anything about it just based on my report.” But this sort of nonintervention request might also be made by victims whose point of view is “I think X is doing really impactful work, and I want my report to at most limit their engagement with EA in certain contexts (e.g., situations where they have significant influence over young EAs), not to limit their involvement in EA generally.” In other words, leave impact considerations to the victim’s own choice.
I’m not sure this the right balance. I wrote it with one specific real example from my own life in mind, and I don’t know how well it generalizes. But it does seem to me like any less victim-friendly positions than that would probably indeed be worse even from a completely consequentialist perspective, because of the likelihood of driving victims away from EA.
because of the likelihood of driving victims away from EA.
And, after a while, also people who aren’t yet victims but know how the community will act (or fall to act) if they become ones, so they just opt out preemptively.
This is a valid consideration, however, one could argue that if we were to give victims the option to opt out of the specific consequence that might have been crucial in preventing future wrongdoings by the same person or other people, then perpetrators would think they can still carry on with their behavior. Especially if the victim decides to opt the perpetrator out of all serious consequences. It also could be the case that victims that are affected by what happened to them psychologically might not be able to make an informed judgment of consequences at that very moment, as we know everyone has their own time frame of processing the wrongdoing that was done to them.
I think maybe that the balance I’d strike here is as follows: we always respect nonintervention requests by victims. That is if the victim says “I was harmed by X, but I think the consequences of me reporting this should not include consequence Y” then we avoid intervening in ways that will cause Y. This is a good practice generally, because you never want to disincentivize people from reporting by making it so that them reporting has consequences they don’t want. Usually the sorts of unwanted consequences in question are things like “I’m afraid of backlash if someone tells X that I’m the one who reported them” or “I’m just saying this to help you establish a pattern of bad behavior by X, but I don’t want to be involved in this so don’t do anything about it just based on my report.” But this sort of nonintervention request might also be made by victims whose point of view is “I think X is doing really impactful work, and I want my report to at most limit their engagement with EA in certain contexts (e.g., situations where they have significant influence over young EAs), not to limit their involvement in EA generally.” In other words, leave impact considerations to the victim’s own choice.
I’m not sure this the right balance. I wrote it with one specific real example from my own life in mind, and I don’t know how well it generalizes. But it does seem to me like any less victim-friendly positions than that would probably indeed be worse even from a completely consequentialist perspective, because of the likelihood of driving victims away from EA.
And, after a while, also people who aren’t yet victims but know how the community will act (or fall to act) if they become ones, so they just opt out preemptively.
This is a valid consideration, however, one could argue that if we were to give victims the option to opt out of the specific consequence that might have been crucial in preventing future wrongdoings by the same person or other people, then perpetrators would think they can still carry on with their behavior. Especially if the victim decides to opt the perpetrator out of all serious consequences. It also could be the case that victims that are affected by what happened to them psychologically might not be able to make an informed judgment of consequences at that very moment, as we know everyone has their own time frame of processing the wrongdoing that was done to them.