Also, yes, I very much had the same dilemma years ago. Mine went something like this:
Heart: I figured it out! All I care about is reducing suffering and increasing happiness!
Brain: Great! I’ve just read a lot of blogs and it turns out that we can maximise that by turning everything into a homogenous substance of hedonium, including you, your mom, your girlfriend, the cast of Friends, all the great artworks and wonders of nature. When shall we start working on that?
Heart: Ummm, a small part of me think that’d be great but… I’m starting to think that maybe happiness and suffering is not ALL I care about, maybe it’s a bit more complex. Is it ok if we don’t turn my mom into hedonium?
My point is, in the end, you think that suffering is bad and happiness is good because your emotions say so (what other reason could there be?). Why not listen to other things your emotions tell you? Ugh, sorry if I’m repeating myself.
Also, yes, I very much had the same dilemma years ago. Mine went something like this:
Heart: I figured it out! All I care about is reducing suffering and increasing happiness!
Brain: Great! I’ve just read a lot of blogs and it turns out that we can maximise that by turning everything into a homogenous substance of hedonium, including you, your mom, your girlfriend, the cast of Friends, all the great artworks and wonders of nature. When shall we start working on that?
Heart: Ummm, a small part of me think that’d be great but… I’m starting to think that maybe happiness and suffering is not ALL I care about, maybe it’s a bit more complex. Is it ok if we don’t turn my mom into hedonium?
My point is, in the end, you think that suffering is bad and happiness is good because your emotions say so (what other reason could there be?). Why not listen to other things your emotions tell you? Ugh, sorry if I’m repeating myself.