Thanks for writing about this, I sometimes find myself in similar situations to your examples and feel unsure how to deal with it best.
I just read Cullen‘s post about psychological harm and thought I‘d mention it here because I think it explains part of why I sometimes experience less patience than usual when it comes to psychological harm that seems partially induced by ideological origins. https://forum.effectivealtruism.org/posts/FpMjQWaNvcPKPuhXQ/blameworthiness-for-avoidable-psychological-harms
Thanks for writing about this, I sometimes find myself in similar situations to your examples and feel unsure how to deal with it best.
I just read Cullen‘s post about psychological harm and thought I‘d mention it here because I think it explains part of why I sometimes experience less patience than usual when it comes to psychological harm that seems partially induced by ideological origins. https://forum.effectivealtruism.org/posts/FpMjQWaNvcPKPuhXQ/blameworthiness-for-avoidable-psychological-harms