Since the attitude around me if you don’t like contracts you entered is generally “tough shit, get more agency”, I was surprised at the responses saying Alice and Chloe should have been protected from an arrangement they willing entered
Where is “around you” where this is the norm? FWIW I think it’s a terrible one.
Rationality/the Bay. I heard it the most regarding polyamory. The good version of it is “people have the freedom to agree to things that could be bad for them or that might turn out bad for the average person”.
Reflecting a bit, I’ll admit that I liked it as a norm in my department in uni (“You want to take a class but don’t have the prerequisites? No problem, it’s your responsibility to understand, not ours”), but still think it has no place in broader society—and in personal and romantic relationships in particular.
Where is “around you” where this is the norm? FWIW I think it’s a terrible one.
Rationality/the Bay. I heard it the most regarding polyamory. The good version of it is “people have the freedom to agree to things that could be bad for them or that might turn out bad for the average person”.
Reflecting a bit, I’ll admit that I liked it as a norm in my department in uni (“You want to take a class but don’t have the prerequisites? No problem, it’s your responsibility to understand, not ours”), but still think it has no place in broader society—and in personal and romantic relationships in particular.