Agree that my epistemic state on this point is also something close to this.
Summarized would be “something like asking her to bring the drugs probably happened, and if so was a mistake that I’d hope was learned from, but the major issue would be if she was pressured to do it, and I’m unsure if I trust the person reporting enough to decide either way without evidence.”
[Edit: I know this is probably a frustrating thing for others to read, but seems worth saying anyway… since making the above comment I’ve had private information shared with me that makes me more confident NL didn’t act in an abusive way regarding this particular issue.]
Agree that my epistemic state on this point is also something close to this.
Summarized would be “something like asking her to bring the drugs probably happened, and if so was a mistake that I’d hope was learned from, but the major issue would be if she was pressured to do it, and I’m unsure if I trust the person reporting enough to decide either way without evidence.”
[Edit: I know this is probably a frustrating thing for others to read, but seems worth saying anyway… since making the above comment I’ve had private information shared with me that makes me more confident NL didn’t act in an abusive way regarding this particular issue.]