Either it’ll be recieved well, or you get free criticism on your ideas, or a blend of the two. You win in all cases. If it get down voted into oblivion you can always delete it; how many deleted posts can you tie to an author? I can’t name one.
Ultimately, nobody cares about you (or me, or any other random forum user). They’re too busy worrying about how they’ll be perceived. This is a blessing. You can take risks and nobody will really care if you fail.
Either it’ll be recieved well, or you get free criticism on your ideas, or a blend of the two.
A tough pill for super-sensitives like me to swallow, but I can see it as an exceptionally powerful one. I surely sympathize with OP on the fear of being downvoted—it’s what kept me away from this site for months and from Reddit entirely—but valid criticism on many occasions has influenced me for the better, even if I’m scornful of the moments. Maybe my hurt with being wrong will lessen someday or maybe not, but knowing why can serve me well in the end, I can admit that.
Either it’ll be recieved well, or you get free criticism on your ideas, or a blend of the two. You win in all cases. If it get down voted into oblivion you can always delete it; how many deleted posts can you tie to an author? I can’t name one.
Ultimately, nobody cares about you (or me, or any other random forum user). They’re too busy worrying about how they’ll be perceived. This is a blessing. You can take risks and nobody will really care if you fail.
A tough pill for super-sensitives like me to swallow, but I can see it as an exceptionally powerful one. I surely sympathize with OP on the fear of being downvoted—it’s what kept me away from this site for months and from Reddit entirely—but valid criticism on many occasions has influenced me for the better, even if I’m scornful of the moments. Maybe my hurt with being wrong will lessen someday or maybe not, but knowing why can serve me well in the end, I can admit that.