I have seen confidentiality requests weaponized many time (indeed, it is one of the most common ways I’ve seen people end up in abusive situations), and as such I desperately don’t want us to have a norm of always erring on the side of confidentiality and heavily punishing people who didn’t even receive a direct request for confidentiality but are just sharing information they could figure out from publicly available information.
I have seen confidentiality requests weaponized many time (indeed, it is one of the most common ways I’ve seen people end up in abusive situations), and as such I desperately don’t want us to have a norm of always erring on the side of confidentiality and heavily punishing people who didn’t even receive a direct request for confidentiality but are just sharing information they could figure out from publicly available information.