I think I agree with your clarification and was in fact conflating the mere act of speaking with strong emotion with speaking in a way that felt more like a display. Yeah, I do think it’s a departure from naive truth-seeking.
In practice, I think it is hard, though I do think it is hard for the second order reasons you give and others. Perhaps an ideal is people share strong emotion when they feel it, but in some kind of format/container/manner that doesn’t shut down discussion or get things heated. “NVC” style, perhaps, as you suggest.
Fwiw, I do think “has no place in the community” without being owned as “no place in my community” or “shouldn’t have a place in the community” is probably too high a simulacrum level by default (though this isn’t necessarily a criticism of Shakeel, I don’t remember what exactly his original comment said.)
Cool. :) I think we broadly agree, and I don’t feel confident about what the ideal way to do this is, though I’d be pretty sad and weirded out by a complete ban on expressing strong feelings in any form.
I think I agree with your clarification and was in fact conflating the mere act of speaking with strong emotion with speaking in a way that felt more like a display. Yeah, I do think it’s a departure from naive truth-seeking.
In practice, I think it is hard, though I do think it is hard for the second order reasons you give and others. Perhaps an ideal is people share strong emotion when they feel it, but in some kind of format/container/manner that doesn’t shut down discussion or get things heated. “NVC” style, perhaps, as you suggest.
Fwiw, I do think “has no place in the community” without being owned as “no place in my community” or “shouldn’t have a place in the community” is probably too high a simulacrum level by default (though this isn’t necessarily a criticism of Shakeel, I don’t remember what exactly his original comment said.)
Cool. :) I think we broadly agree, and I don’t feel confident about what the ideal way to do this is, though I’d be pretty sad and weirded out by a complete ban on expressing strong feelings in any form.