I believe there is a reasonable risk should EAs… [d]ate coworkers, especially when there is a power differential and especially when there is a direct report relationship
I think you’re right that there’s some risk in these situations. But also: work is one of the main places where one is able to meet people, including potential romantic partners. Norms against dating co-workers therefore seem quite costly in lost romance, which I think is a big deal! I think it’s probably worth having norms against the cases you single out as especially risky, but otherwise, I’d rather our norms be laissez-faire.
I think you’re right that there’s some risk in these situations. But also: work is one of the main places where one is able to meet people, including potential romantic partners. Norms against dating co-workers therefore seem quite costly in lost romance, which I think is a big deal! I think it’s probably worth having norms against the cases you single out as especially risky, but otherwise, I’d rather our norms be laissez-faire.