Strongly agree on this. It’s been a pet peeve of mine to hear exactly these kinds of phrases. You’re right that it’s nearly a passive formulation, and frames things in a very low-agentiness way.
At the same time, I think we should recognize the phrasing as a symptom of some underlying feeling of powerlessness. Tabooing the phrase might help, but won’t eradicate the condition. E.g.: - If someone says “EA should consider funding North Korean refugees” - You or I might respond “You should write up that analysis! You should make that case!” - But the corresponding question is: Why didn’t they feel like they could do that in the first place? Is it just because people are lazy? Or were they uncertain that their writeup would be taken seriously? Maybe they feel that EA decision making only happens through “official channels” and random EA Forum writers not employed by large EA organizations don’t actually have a say?
Strongly agree on this. It’s been a pet peeve of mine to hear exactly these kinds of phrases. You’re right that it’s nearly a passive formulation, and frames things in a very low-agentiness way.
At the same time, I think we should recognize the phrasing as a symptom of some underlying feeling of powerlessness. Tabooing the phrase might help, but won’t eradicate the condition. E.g.:
- If someone says “EA should consider funding North Korean refugees”
- You or I might respond “You should write up that analysis! You should make that case!”
- But the corresponding question is: Why didn’t they feel like they could do that in the first place? Is it just because people are lazy? Or were they uncertain that their writeup would be taken seriously? Maybe they feel that EA decision making only happens through “official channels” and random EA Forum writers not employed by large EA organizations don’t actually have a say?