I do think this is a hard balance, and as someone whose writing motivation is far stronger with the reward of immediate publication, itās one Iāve struggled with and probably one Iāve gotten this wrong in both directions. A norm of sharing a draft ahead of time and giving them, say, a week to prepare a response if they want, though, seems pretty good?
Iām starting to think posts should get a pinned mod comment if the poster doesnāt assert that the person/āorganization had a specified amount of advance notice. That could be a tricky norm to define, as there can be valid reasons not to provide advance notice (e.g., breaking news or a situation where delay could risk clearly identifiable harm), and itās not trivial to define with precision what type of posts warrant an advance-notice norm. Iām not envisioning a hostile pinned comment, but I am wondering if there should be an āofficialā statement that says something along the lines of: āwe donāt delete criticisms that were not shared with the person/āorganization in advance, butāat least absent special circumstancesāno one should expect a prompt response where the poster chose not to share the post in advance.ā
I do think this is a hard balance, and as someone whose writing motivation is far stronger with the reward of immediate publication, itās one Iāve struggled with and probably one Iāve gotten this wrong in both directions. A norm of sharing a draft ahead of time and giving them, say, a week to prepare a response if they want, though, seems pretty good?
[EDIT: expanded this into a post]
Iām starting to think posts should get a pinned mod comment if the poster doesnāt assert that the person/āorganization had a specified amount of advance notice. That could be a tricky norm to define, as there can be valid reasons not to provide advance notice (e.g., breaking news or a situation where delay could risk clearly identifiable harm), and itās not trivial to define with precision what type of posts warrant an advance-notice norm. Iām not envisioning a hostile pinned comment, but I am wondering if there should be an āofficialā statement that says something along the lines of: āwe donāt delete criticisms that were not shared with the person/āorganization in advance, butāat least absent special circumstancesāno one should expect a prompt response where the poster chose not to share the post in advance.ā
Edit: typo