When an EA cares for their family taking away time from extinction risk they’re valuing their family as much as 10^N people.
Not sure exactly what you mean here—do you mean attending to family matters (looking after family) taking away time from working on extinction risk reduction?
Not sure exactly what you mean here—do you mean attending to family matters (looking after family) taking away time from working on extinction risk reduction?
Yes. Which, at least on optimistic assumptions, means sacrificing lots of lives.
Fair point. But this applies to a lot of things in EA. We give what we can.