Take the opportunity! As a girl, it’s not that I WANT to take the child, it’s that other people rarely step forward, and I think the parents deserve some time to participate.
It’s totally not weird for a guy to take the baby. Children are pretty hardy. You’re unlikely to break one. Parents are usually pretty expert at calming their kids down, so if something DOES happen, you have a parent right there.
(Note: Currently I’m the nanny to the only child who ever comes to meetups, and I’m fine with being the person responsible for taking THAT SPECIFIC baby for a bit, because I know I’m going to have a much easier time with him than anyone else. My comments are in regards to other instances.)
Take the opportunity! As a girl, it’s not that I WANT to take the child, it’s that other people rarely step forward, and I think the parents deserve some time to participate.
It’s totally not weird for a guy to take the baby. Children are pretty hardy. You’re unlikely to break one. Parents are usually pretty expert at calming their kids down, so if something DOES happen, you have a parent right there.
(Note: Currently I’m the nanny to the only child who ever comes to meetups, and I’m fine with being the person responsible for taking THAT SPECIFIC baby for a bit, because I know I’m going to have a much easier time with him than anyone else. My comments are in regards to other instances.)