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I’m sorry you had a bad experience with this post.
We definitely want to make sure everyone feels comfortable and welcome contributing.
So for reference (and for anyone reading) if you notice a down vote and realise you could’ve justified your post better, or framed it more sensitively, you can easily put it into your drafts to work it over and submit it (or a similar new post) again later.