Thanks for the pushback (I also appreciated Amber’s response). I agree that there’s a risk of taking the direction of my comment too far, and I agree that anger is a fully valid emotion and it’s fully valid and informative/useful to communicate it here.
What I do still believe is that anger makes productive discourse more difficult, and I think that many comments here are cases of that happening. When I get angry, I’m less patient, I feel more like I’m in a fight and that I want to win an argument as opposed to understand the situation better and contribute my perspective to a shared process of understanding and decision-making. In case you’re familiar, in EA terms I think that anger moves me away from a “scout mindset” and towards a “soldier mindset”.
I’m currently not convinced that in this discussion, and in the EA forum in general, sharing emotions is discouraged to a degree that is worrying and discourages affected groups and individuals, and I’d be sad if that impression is false. What I see as discouraged is uncivility, uncharitability and snark, and I suspect it only seems like there are more downvotes for emotional comments because of the “anger → impatience” mechanism.
Thanks for the pushback (I also appreciated Amber’s response). I agree that there’s a risk of taking the direction of my comment too far, and I agree that anger is a fully valid emotion and it’s fully valid and informative/useful to communicate it here.
What I do still believe is that anger makes productive discourse more difficult, and I think that many comments here are cases of that happening. When I get angry, I’m less patient, I feel more like I’m in a fight and that I want to win an argument as opposed to understand the situation better and contribute my perspective to a shared process of understanding and decision-making. In case you’re familiar, in EA terms I think that anger moves me away from a “scout mindset” and towards a “soldier mindset”.
I’m currently not convinced that in this discussion, and in the EA forum in general, sharing emotions is discouraged to a degree that is worrying and discourages affected groups and individuals, and I’d be sad if that impression is false. What I see as discouraged is uncivility, uncharitability and snark, and I suspect it only seems like there are more downvotes for emotional comments because of the “anger → impatience” mechanism.