I’m not sure. She linked to both sources her post, so I don’t think the issue is that she doesn’t know about them.
I did give her quite a bit of feedback on her application and things she might include/ways she might get involved in the future, which would have given her some additional insight into how we think about the process. That might be what she means.
I have the hypothesis that the two of you are just different types of people personality-wise with different communication styles that led to a far larger inferential distance between the two of you than either of you could have anticipated. Possibly also since each of you saw the other as “a fellow EA” this made it even easier for both of you to underestimate how large the inferential distance could be between the two of you.
My understanding is you and Constance only talked for an hour. That doesn’t sound like that long and if anything sounds like the perfect amount of time for both parties to come away confidently and incorrectlybelieving that the object level information had been properly transmitted and understood.
I’m not sure. She linked to both sources her post, so I don’t think the issue is that she doesn’t know about them.
I did give her quite a bit of feedback on her application and things she might include/ways she might get involved in the future, which would have given her some additional insight into how we think about the process. That might be what she means.
I have the hypothesis that the two of you are just different types of people personality-wise with different communication styles that led to a far larger inferential distance between the two of you than either of you could have anticipated. Possibly also since each of you saw the other as “a fellow EA” this made it even easier for both of you to underestimate how large the inferential distance could be between the two of you.
My understanding is you and Constance only talked for an hour. That doesn’t sound like that long and if anything sounds like the perfect amount of time for both parties to come away confidently and incorrectly believing that the object level information had been properly transmitted and understood.