Historical note: If EA had emerged in the 1970s era of the gay rights movement rather than the 2010s, I can imagine an alternative history in which some EAs were utterly outraged and offended that gay or lesbian EAs had dared to invite them to a gay or lesbian event. The EA community could have leveraged the latent homophobia of the time to portray such an invitation as bizarrely unprofessional, and a big problem that needs addressing. Why are we treating polyamory and kink in 2023 with the same reactive outrage that people would have treated gay/lesbian sexuality fifty years ago?
This comparison seems quite misleading to me because it glosses over the type of “event” in question. The OP was calling for people to avoid casually inviting coworkers to sex parties, not just “events”. I certainly hope that casually inviting a coworker to to attend a sex party -- whether that be gay, lesbian, straight, or whatever—would be considered inappropriate and grossly unprofessional even today!
This comparison seems quite misleading to me because it glosses over the type of “event” in question. The OP was calling for people to avoid casually inviting coworkers to sex parties, not just “events”. I certainly hope that casually inviting a coworker to to attend a sex party -- whether that be gay, lesbian, straight, or whatever—would be considered inappropriate and grossly unprofessional even today!