From the reasons to avoid engaging in interpersonal conflict ” i) isn’t going to change anyone’s actions much; ii) isn’t going to make the world a much better place, even if it does change their actions; or iii) is very hard to persuade others about”.
I think even if all of these apply it might be worth it to engage in interpersonal conflict if you can learn from it. Discussing with someone and then reflecting on the discussion and how you discussed can help you improve how you handle these conflicts. If the cost of interpersonal tension is not too high it is a price worth paying for your improvement.
From the reasons to avoid engaging in interpersonal conflict ” i) isn’t going to change anyone’s actions much; ii) isn’t going to make the world a much better place, even if it does change their actions; or iii) is very hard to persuade others about”.
I think even if all of these apply it might be worth it to engage in interpersonal conflict if you can learn from it. Discussing with someone and then reflecting on the discussion and how you discussed can help you improve how you handle these conflicts. If the cost of interpersonal tension is not too high it is a price worth paying for your improvement.