Well, no one has the “real” answers to any of these questions, even the most EA of all EAs. The important thing is to be asking good questions in the first place. I think it’s both most truthful and most interpersonally effective to say something like “gee, I’ve never thought about that before. But here’s a question I would ask to get started. What do you think?”
Well, no one has the “real” answers to any of these questions, even the most EA of all EAs. The important thing is to be asking good questions in the first place. I think it’s both most truthful and most interpersonally effective to say something like “gee, I’ve never thought about that before. But here’s a question I would ask to get started. What do you think?”