I am unpleasantly surprised by what I hear in this and other posts that make it sound like there is a sort of EA “party scene” or something. It sounds like EA men (and maybe others) need to focus a lot more on working their butts off every single day to help others, and a lot less (or ideally not at all, but that can be tough) on trying to get laid/dating.
Yeah, how dare they not dedicate every waking hour to helping others-the audacity!
In all seriousness, pretty sure the problem here are things like people who don’t respect others’ boundaries/not recognizing power dynamics, the culture that normalizes this, and the institutions that don’t adequately mitigate this risk, not the fact that people trying to do good in their life can also spend parts of their life socializing.
In all seriousness, pretty sure the problem here are things like people who don’t respect others’ boundaries/not recognizing power dynamics, the culture that normalizes this, and the institutions that don’t adequately mitigate this risk
I am unpleasantly surprised by what I hear in this and other posts that make it sound like there is a sort of EA “party scene” or something. It sounds like EA men (and maybe others) need to focus a lot more on working their butts off every single day to help others, and a lot less (or ideally not at all, but that can be tough) on trying to get laid/dating.
Yeah, how dare they not dedicate every waking hour to helping others-the audacity!
In all seriousness, pretty sure the problem here are things like people who don’t respect others’ boundaries/not recognizing power dynamics, the culture that normalizes this, and the institutions that don’t adequately mitigate this risk, not the fact that people trying to do good in their life can also spend parts of their life socializing.
That goes without saying.