My point is that Ben is in fact able to do whatever legal thing he wants. He doesn’t need to make us wrong to do so. It’s interesting that he feels the need to. Whether EA or Peter Singer has suggested that it’s morally wrong not to give, Ben is free to follow his own conscience/desires and does not need our approval. If his real argument is that he should be respected by EAs for his decision not to give, I think that should be distinguished from a pseudo-factual argument that we’re deceived about the need to give money.