that’s an interesting point (and unfortunately i think quite common). the difference between the two is cultural acceptability of each practice. broadly speaking, most would consider that position of your parents to be reasonable, and the position of a Pledger to be problematic. but that’s the very crux of the issue! and as i argue in section IV.3, practicing the Pledge is itself meant to address it.
that’s an interesting point (and unfortunately i think quite common). the difference between the two is cultural acceptability of each practice. broadly speaking, most would consider that position of your parents to be reasonable, and the position of a Pledger to be problematic. but that’s the very crux of the issue! and as i argue in section IV.3, practicing the Pledge is itself meant to address it.