Thank you so much for sharing this poetic dedication to your friend. I sadly never had the pleasure of meeting Alexa. I now wish I had. But I can tell from this heartfelt post and the website linked that they were a bright light in the dark and vast sea that the world can sometimes feel like. I love the stories you shared. Simple acts of kindness and empathy that reverberate through space and time and impact humans and non-human animals alike. No doubt that there are so many beings that will remember Alexa and their impact.
Oddly, I’m reminded of a lyric from one of my favorite albums of the last few years:
”Afraid of the empty/but too safe on the shore”
As someone who is around Alexa’s age, I often feel too safe on the shore. Never fully being the kind of person that I should be. Sticking with what’s familiar and comfortable. I hate to say it, but I’ve been the person who has walked past the unconscious man lying on the payment. I’m terrified of the empty. I’ve been cowardly.
Alexa seemed like the kind of person who went out into the empty, the vast sea, with a smile and big heart. And who wasn’t afraid to be the kind of person that most of us will spend our entire lives trying to become (and may never reach).
Their story has affected me deeply. I look forward to processing Alexa’s stories, and how they can inspire me and many others to be a little braver in the face of the open ocean of life and its challenges, and how we can do that with a little more empathy, gentleness, and compassion.
I’m so sorry for the loss of your dear friend.
Very late to the party here, but I definitely strongly agree with this constructive critique. One of the strongest reasons that corporate welfarist work has had some success in the US and EU is that those regions have very strong pre-existing land animal farming industries. So the logic of trying to make them better is defensible.
New industries, on the other hand, have extensive uncertainty. And so trying to stave off the farming all together could be a much higher “reward” endeavor than assuming it’s destined to exist (e.g., see some recent wins in preemptive banning of octopus farming).
But nonetheless, I look forward to seeing this work.