When we use the word “should”, we make one choice seem like the option that makes us a good person and one option seem like negative infinity.
I really like this sentence. I think it applies in many other scenarios beyond using “should.” I have experienced plenty of unproductive perfectionism arising from a mistaken belief that the perfect option is good and everything else is terrible.
I like most of this article.
I dislike this point, perhaps because it faintly promotes using utilitarianism to suppress normal human feelings. I think a healthier approach is to accept these feelings without obsessing over them. Additionally, the thought “Well, these are problems for other people, but not for me thanks to being a dedicate!” reminds me of blind faith, escapism, avoiding the least convenient possible world, and once-and-for-allism.
I think the same can be said for many non-dedicates.