I agree with your sentiment that cultural power dynamics and bad behavior around work/life intermingling and polyamory should be disentangled.
I think the crux of OP’s argument is that she feels like poly EA men are more responsible for this cultural issue since she feels like they are more likely to make sexual advances and extend invitations that make her feel uncomfortable.
I agree with your sentiment that cultural power dynamics and bad behavior around work/life intermingling and polyamory should be disentangled.
I think the crux of OP’s argument is that she feels like poly EA men are more responsible for this cultural issue since she feels like they are more likely to make sexual advances and extend invitations that make her feel uncomfortable.