Oh, it sounds like you might be confused about the context I’m talking about this occurring in, and I’m not sure that explaining it more fully is on-topic enough for this post. I’m going to leave this thread here for now to not detract from the main conversation. But I’ll consider making a separate post about this and welcome feedback there.
Do you not see how that’s controlling what ideas and people they are exposed to?
They can’t make the choice on their own. You’re keeping information from them because you’ve decided what’s good for them.
I think the more robustly good thing to do is find out what your friends’ preferences are and follow their expressed preferences.
Oh, it sounds like you might be confused about the context I’m talking about this occurring in, and I’m not sure that explaining it more fully is on-topic enough for this post. I’m going to leave this thread here for now to not detract from the main conversation. But I’ll consider making a separate post about this and welcome feedback there.