The second is here (paywalled) and I am not sure what was the first. If you find it I can use the moderator privileges and edit the post to fix the links.
From 1. “the same ballpark as murder” the Internet Archive has it saved here The link in 3 “in the same ballpark as walking past a child drowning in a shallow pond” is also dead, but is in the Internet archive here
The second is here (paywalled) and I am not sure what was the first. If you find it I can use the moderator privileges and edit the post to fix the links.
From 1. “the same ballpark as murder” the Internet Archive has it saved here
The link in 3 “in the same ballpark as walking past a child drowning in a shallow pond” is also dead, but is in the Internet archive here
Edit: the link in 2 is also archived here