I really liked this post and agree with much of it.
I ran the Forum for a while. This involved handling interpersonal conflict. At worst, the conflicts on my plate were things like āan argument between two peopleā or āsomeone having a mild breakdown in text formā. These are relatively minor issues on the CH scale, but they were among the most stressful elements of my job; Iād get lost for hours trying to write the perfect moderator response, or arguing with someone in DMs about how Iād resolved a situation.
Iād find dealing with CH situations much more stressful ā because of their severity, and because I wouldnāt even get to write a moderator response. I thrive on being able to explain myself, and forced silence/āvagueness would drive me crazy. Instead of āusing quotes from a public post to describe why weāve banned someone for a weekā, Iād have āusing my best judgment about a story with multiple sides to explain why weāve made a decision that will have a serious impact on the lives of multiple people, at least one of whom will be unhappy with the decision and possibly share their side on the Forum laterā. And I might not even be able to say what the decision was!
So while I donāt know enough about internal CH matters to say that Iād agree with all their decisions, I appreciate that having to make those decisions at all ā and face public scrutiny without recourse to transparency ā is extremely difficult, and that there is no way to āwinā every such decision.
I really liked this post and agree with much of it.
I ran the Forum for a while. This involved handling interpersonal conflict. At worst, the conflicts on my plate were things like āan argument between two peopleā or āsomeone having a mild breakdown in text formā. These are relatively minor issues on the CH scale, but they were among the most stressful elements of my job; Iād get lost for hours trying to write the perfect moderator response, or arguing with someone in DMs about how Iād resolved a situation.
Iād find dealing with CH situations much more stressful ā because of their severity, and because I wouldnāt even get to write a moderator response. I thrive on being able to explain myself, and forced silence/āvagueness would drive me crazy. Instead of āusing quotes from a public post to describe why weāve banned someone for a weekā, Iād have āusing my best judgment about a story with multiple sides to explain why weāve made a decision that will have a serious impact on the lives of multiple people, at least one of whom will be unhappy with the decision and possibly share their side on the Forum laterā. And I might not even be able to say what the decision was!
So while I donāt know enough about internal CH matters to say that Iād agree with all their decisions, I appreciate that having to make those decisions at all ā and face public scrutiny without recourse to transparency ā is extremely difficult, and that there is no way to āwinā every such decision.