While wider western societies are often a good baseline to use, I think it’s important for EA to try to be more moral than our surroundings. Based on my moral standards, if existing norms punish consenting adults for making certain personal decisions about their private lives, we should try to strongly avoid adopting similar hostility (I think this is a pretty widely-endorsed principle in general, and it’s just that others aren’t as consistent about it).
That’s separate from noticing ways in which higher prevalence of polyamory has flow-through effects on other dynamics (like the ones I identified in my previous comment) and trying to ensure those go well; I think that’s a more productive discussion than trying to debate about polyamory as a whole.
While polyamory definitely leads to different dynamics of women’s safety issues(like the ones throwaway5 pointed out), making every discussion of women’s safety as a discussion about poly is unproductive.
I dunno, you’re the one making this very much about that. As is throwaway5, who seems to share your views, writing style, and confusion the difference between polygamy and polyamory.
While wider western societies are often a good baseline to use, I think it’s important for EA to try to be more moral than our surroundings. Based on my moral standards, if existing norms punish consenting adults for making certain personal decisions about their private lives, we should try to strongly avoid adopting similar hostility (I think this is a pretty widely-endorsed principle in general, and it’s just that others aren’t as consistent about it).
That’s separate from noticing ways in which higher prevalence of polyamory has flow-through effects on other dynamics (like the ones I identified in my previous comment) and trying to ensure those go well; I think that’s a more productive discussion than trying to debate about polyamory as a whole.
+1 agree with Richard.
While polyamory definitely leads to different dynamics of women’s safety issues(like the ones throwaway5 pointed out), making every discussion of women’s safety as a discussion about poly is unproductive.
I dunno, you’re the one making this very much about that. As is throwaway5, who seems to share your views, writing style, and confusion the difference between polygamy and polyamory.