Yes, I think that’s where some kind of an advance plan can be useful:
“When I start acting like X, I want you to take step Y” or
“When you act like X, I’m going to stop engaging with the conversation and start focusing on helping you get some rest, and we can write down where we were in the conversation and resume 48 hours later if you want.”
Yes, I think that’s where some kind of an advance plan can be useful: “When I start acting like X, I want you to take step Y” or “When you act like X, I’m going to stop engaging with the conversation and start focusing on helping you get some rest, and we can write down where we were in the conversation and resume 48 hours later if you want.”