If someone hosts weekly EA meetups for their community, mostly because they happen to be a local EA whose apartment/âhouse has a good common space and is centrally located, they canât date anyone in their local EA community, since mostly someone will have attended one of their events within the last month.
If someone speaks at an EAGx they canât date anyone who attended for 3m, even if the attendee is of equal or higher status/âpower within EA.
Again there needs to be nuance. Weekly events surely wouldnât be included, and like I said below I think maybe a speaker could be off limits for the duration of EAGx but then no restrictions afterwards?
I donât think those are concrete reasons not to apply it, just scenarios where it should be handled differently from the OPâs original scenario
I agree there are so many potential scenarios it would be hard to be fair and consistant.
I donât think thatâs obvious from the post? It describes the AR policy as including âfor one month after an evening eventâ and then recommends community builders adopt this policy.
But Iâm not really sure that we disagree on anythingâI was trying to answer your âwhat makes you less convinced about applying it directly?â
Example issues with applying it directly:
If someone hosts weekly EA meetups for their community, mostly because they happen to be a local EA whose apartment/âhouse has a good common space and is centrally located, they canât date anyone in their local EA community, since mostly someone will have attended one of their events within the last month.
If someone speaks at an EAGx they canât date anyone who attended for 3m, even if the attendee is of equal or higher status/âpower within EA.
Thanks Jeff
Again there needs to be nuance. Weekly events surely wouldnât be included, and like I said below I think maybe a speaker could be off limits for the duration of EAGx but then no restrictions afterwards?
I donât think those are concrete reasons not to apply it, just scenarios where it should be handled differently from the OPâs original scenario
I agree there are so many potential scenarios it would be hard to be fair and consistant.
> Weekly events surely wouldnât be included
I donât think thatâs obvious from the post? It describes the AR policy as including âfor one month after an evening eventâ and then recommends community builders adopt this policy.
But Iâm not really sure that we disagree on anythingâI was trying to answer your âwhat makes you less convinced about applying it directly?â