Thanks! I think we probably agree much more than your comment suggests. I wholeheartedly agree with this, for example:
But better still would be āI would like more examples of what these budget numbers mean for our day to day operationsā or āexpert consensus is that people will pay more attention if you sound excited when you give a presentationā.
Those are the kinds of indisputable facts that I think should be used instead of judgments (no one can dispute that you would like more examples for the budget).
I think thereās a caricature version of NVC in a lot peopleās minds where NVC is all about talking about feelings or something, in a way that feels insincere or naive. And perhaps justifiably soāIāve seen people weaponize NVC to just mask their judgments behind a veil of seemingly nonviolent language, but their intentions are all too obvious, which often leads to even worse outcomes. So yeah, basically Iām fully on board with the idea of speaking/āwriting in a way that will most clearly convey meaning.
Thanks! I think we probably agree much more than your comment suggests. I wholeheartedly agree with this, for example:
Those are the kinds of indisputable facts that I think should be used instead of judgments (no one can dispute that you would like more examples for the budget).
I think thereās a caricature version of NVC in a lot peopleās minds where NVC is all about talking about feelings or something, in a way that feels insincere or naive. And perhaps justifiably soāIāve seen people weaponize NVC to just mask their judgments behind a veil of seemingly nonviolent language, but their intentions are all too obvious, which often leads to even worse outcomes. So yeah, basically Iām fully on board with the idea of speaking/āwriting in a way that will most clearly convey meaning.