I’m not sure what you mean by ‘low emotional control.’ Are you talking about people who can’t control their reactions, or who can but find it tiring, or who can but choose not to?
I’m very emotional, but if someone’s rude to me in the context of a government negotiation, no one would be able to tell I even heard the insult (depending—in some contexts it’s strategic to assert yourself and set boundaries).
If someone’s rude to me in a social context, though, they’re going to get an earful! I don’t get paid to take your crap, so when someone insults me, either they’re going to hear about it or I’m going to leave.
So… Is that a low level of emotional control, or a high level of emotional control? What exactly are you referring to?
I’m not sure what you mean by ‘low emotional control.’ Are you talking about people who can’t control their reactions, or who can but find it tiring, or who can but choose not to?
I’m very emotional, but if someone’s rude to me in the context of a government negotiation, no one would be able to tell I even heard the insult (depending—in some contexts it’s strategic to assert yourself and set boundaries).
If someone’s rude to me in a social context, though, they’re going to get an earful! I don’t get paid to take your crap, so when someone insults me, either they’re going to hear about it or I’m going to leave.
So… Is that a low level of emotional control, or a high level of emotional control? What exactly are you referring to?