I agree with both points—I don’t think it’s productive to call people names, but I do want to draw attention to the parallel you make in this and many of the other comments on this page.
[ETA Maybe bisexuality would be a better metaphor, just for the practical reason that it matches better with the concern people are voicing that ‘this sort of behaviour’ naturally implies a larger number of sexual/romantic dynamics]
I agree with both points—I don’t think it’s productive to call people names, but I do want to draw attention to the parallel you make in this and many of the other comments on this page.
[ETA Maybe bisexuality would be a better metaphor, just for the practical reason that it matches better with the concern people are voicing that ‘this sort of behaviour’ naturally implies a larger number of sexual/romantic dynamics]