This is the comment that made me feel very unsafe and take down the post.
What I said:
1. you can find many unhappy women in poly relationships
2. many poly men are sexual predators
You reframed my sentences to your convenience to claim that I said :
proceeds to suggest that women in poly relationships are unhappy and that poly men are uniquely likely to be sexual predators
the rest of your post bases on that assumption. Many != all, that is an important distinction. I am qualifying my sentences with “some of these men”, “many men” in various places but you’ve ignored that. I am not anonymous, so your calling me bigoted seems retaliatory, personal and unwarranted. The reason I didn’t take specific names but used many was because I don’t want to get into more issues, but usually the definition of many is more than one. I have not stopped a poly person from being poly so what do you mean by “not respecting others mono/poly choices”? Who did I coerce?
@lizka, @julia_wise, take note, I cannot presume your forum permits retaliation, name calling and personal attacks.
I didn’t call you bigoted, I called your post bigoted and I stand by it. If my comment about your post made you feel “very unsafe,” then I do not wish to argue about the matter and risk coming off as even more of a threat to you, as that could not be further from my intention. I wish you the best.
This is the comment that made me feel very unsafe and take down the post.
What I said:
1. you can find many unhappy women in poly relationships
2. many poly men are sexual predators
You reframed my sentences to your convenience to claim that I said :
the rest of your post bases on that assumption. Many != all, that is an important distinction. I am qualifying my sentences with “some of these men”, “many men” in various places but you’ve ignored that. I am not anonymous, so your calling me bigoted seems retaliatory, personal and unwarranted. The reason I didn’t take specific names but used many was because I don’t want to get into more issues, but usually the definition of many is more than one. I have not stopped a poly person from being poly so what do you mean by “not respecting others mono/poly choices”? Who did I coerce?
@lizka, @julia_wise, take note, I cannot presume your forum permits retaliation, name calling and personal attacks.
I didn’t call you bigoted, I called your post bigoted and I stand by it. If my comment about your post made you feel “very unsafe,” then I do not wish to argue about the matter and risk coming off as even more of a threat to you, as that could not be further from my intention. I wish you the best.