I’m sure it’s context dependent and depends on size of favours. But I’m not sure it depends that much—and I’m worried that if we don’t discuss numbers it’s easy for people who are naturally disinclined to ask to think “oh I’m probably doing this enough already” (or people who are naturally inclined to do this a lot already to think “oh yeah I totally need to do that more”).
Maybe you could give a context where you think my numbers are badly off?
My guess is that it’s just very context dependent — I’m not sure how generalisable these sorts of numbers are.
It also seems like the size of favours would vary a ton and make it hard to give a helpful number.
I’m sure it’s context dependent and depends on size of favours. But I’m not sure it depends that much—and I’m worried that if we don’t discuss numbers it’s easy for people who are naturally disinclined to ask to think “oh I’m probably doing this enough already” (or people who are naturally inclined to do this a lot already to think “oh yeah I totally need to do that more”).
Maybe you could give a context where you think my numbers are badly off?