(2) Much more cantankerously: “If your dear friends are suffering deeply, and you have created a system that can help, do not spend any spare time (outside your EA day job) on teaching them the system. You need to spend that spare time on altruistic things, not your friends’ suffering. Certainly do not allow any motivated non-EA friends to spend THEIR time helping you build a scalable version for your entire community” is not a moral system or set of community norms I can get behind.
(2) Much more cantankerously: “If your dear friends are suffering deeply, and you have created a system that can help, do not spend any spare time (outside your EA day job) on teaching them the system. You need to spend that spare time on altruistic things, not your friends’ suffering. Certainly do not allow any motivated non-EA friends to spend THEIR time helping you build a scalable version for your entire community” is not a moral system or set of community norms I can get behind.