Like you say it seems like many people draw a line when it comes to utility between parts of our life that can seem deeply personal (relationships), and aspects of our life that seem less personal (What job I should do, where I should give my money, what cause is best). Perhaps this is a reasonable distinction and we should be drawing that line, but I would like to see it better articulated rather than assumed.
I appreciated @Nathan Young’s comment above which perhaps articulates some of this difficulty. “I feel sad/judged/ frustrated reading this, though that’s not to say it’s wrong.”
Strongly agree
Like you say it seems like many people draw a line when it comes to utility between parts of our life that can seem deeply personal (relationships), and aspects of our life that seem less personal (What job I should do, where I should give my money, what cause is best). Perhaps this is a reasonable distinction and we should be drawing that line, but I would like to see it better articulated rather than assumed.
I appreciated @Nathan Young’s comment above which perhaps articulates some of this difficulty. “I feel sad/judged/ frustrated reading this, though that’s not to say it’s wrong.”