Hot tubs at least seem fine. I can’t imagine anyone feeling offended or creeped out by being asked at a party if they want to join a hot tub the way they might if they’re propositioned for sex (at least, unless there’s more going on in the situation). I’ve heard of the cuddle puddles at Bay Area parties but I’m not familiar enough with them to have an informed view there.
Hot tubs at least seem fine. I can’t imagine anyone feeling offended or creeped out by being asked at a party if they want to join a hot tub the way they might if they’re propositioned for sex (at least, unless there’s more going on in the situation). I’ve heard of the cuddle puddles at Bay Area parties but I’m not familiar enough with them to have an informed view there.
I expect this depends somewhat on attire?