How do you and your wife decide where to give to, collectively? Do you guys each have a budget, do you discuss a lot and fund based on consensus, something else?
It has varied. Giving both of us half the budget is in some ways most natural but we quickly noticed it was gameable to the extent we can predict each other’s actions, similar to what is described here. At the moment we’re much closer to ‘discuss a lot and fund based on consensus’.
How do you and your wife decide where to give to, collectively? Do you guys each have a budget, do you discuss a lot and fund based on consensus, something else?
It has varied. Giving both of us half the budget is in some ways most natural but we quickly noticed it was gameable to the extent we can predict each other’s actions, similar to what is described here. At the moment we’re much closer to ‘discuss a lot and fund based on consensus’.