I am in favor of respecting people’s pronouns (within reason) and am against deadnaming (as long as its not used to avoid past misdoings, which doesn’t seem to be the case this time), so I think the deadnaming seems bad either way, but I just remember the pronoun situation being a bit more confusing.
I thought when we had that discussion last time the gender preferences for Torres were super confusing, and it’s pretty plausible they are OK being referred to by”he/him”?
I am in favor of respecting people’s pronouns (within reason) and am against deadnaming (as long as its not used to avoid past misdoings, which doesn’t seem to be the case this time), so I think the deadnaming seems bad either way, but I just remember the pronoun situation being a bit more confusing.
Torres is now fully they/them I think
Cool, makes sense. It does look like at least their FB profile is updated and doesn’t like “he/him” pronouns anymore.