I’m not that invested in this topic, but if you have information you don’t want to share publicly and want to leave up the criticism, it may be worth flagging that, and maybe others will take you up on your offer and can confirm.
I agree with anonymizing. Even if you’re right about them and have good reasons for believing it, singling out people by name for unsolicited public criticism of their career choices seems unusual, unusually personal, fairly totalizing/​promoting demandingness,[1] and at high risk of strawmanning them if they haven’t explicitly defended it to you or others, so it might be better not to do or indirectly promote by doing. Criticizing their public writing seems fair game, of course.
Someone might have non-utilitarian reasons for choosing one career over another, like they might have for having children. That being said, this can apply to an anonymous critique, too, but it seems much harsher when you name someone, because it’s like public shaming.
To be clear, I do not have private information, I just think this conversation is better had offline. To the extent singling them out in a comment is mean, explaining why I did so publicly might also be mean.
I’m not that invested in this topic, but if you have information you don’t want to share publicly and want to leave up the criticism, it may be worth flagging that, and maybe others will take you up on your offer and can confirm.
I agree with anonymizing. Even if you’re right about them and have good reasons for believing it, singling out people by name for unsolicited public criticism of their career choices seems unusual, unusually personal, fairly totalizing/​promoting demandingness,[1] and at high risk of strawmanning them if they haven’t explicitly defended it to you or others, so it might be better not to do or indirectly promote by doing. Criticizing their public writing seems fair game, of course.
Someone might have non-utilitarian reasons for choosing one career over another, like they might have for having children. That being said, this can apply to an anonymous critique, too, but it seems much harsher when you name someone, because it’s like public shaming.
To be clear, I do not have private information, I just think this conversation is better had offline. To the extent singling them out in a comment is mean, explaining why I did so publicly might also be mean.
I’ve anonymized. Can you do the same?
Done.