Sorry, what does “bad idea” mean to you other than “this is not the best use of resources?” Does it have to mean net negative?
I’ve sorry that you believe I misunderstood other’s positions. Or that I’m playing the “I’m being cool and rational here” card. I don’t personally think I’m being unusually cool here, if anything this is a pretty unpleasant experience that has made me reconsider whether the EA community is worth continued engagement with.
I have made some updates as well, though I need to reflect further on the wisdom of sharing them publicly.
Things can be ‘not the best’, but still good. For example, let’s say a systematic, well-run, whistleblower organisation was the ‘best’ way. And compare it to ‘telling your friends about a bad org’. ‘Telling your friends’ is not the best strategy, but it still might be good to do, or worth doing. Saying “telling your friends is not the best way” is consistent with this. Saying “telling your friends is a bad idea” is not consistent with this.
I.e. ‘bad idea’ connotes much more than just ‘sub-optimal, all things considered’.
Sorry by “best” I was locally thinking of what’s locally best given present limitations, not globally best (which is separately an interesting but less directly relevant discussion). I agree that if there are good actions to do right now, it will be wrong for me to say that all of them are bad because one should wait for (eg) a “systematic, well-run, whistleblower organisation.”
For example, if I was saying “GiveDirectly is a bad charity for animal-welfare focused EAs to donate to,” I meant that there are better charities on the margin for animal-welfare focused EAs to donate to. I do not mean that in the abstract we should not donate to charities because a well-run international government should be handling public goods provisions and animal welfare restrictions instead. I agree that I should not in most cases be comparing real possibilities against an impossible (or at least heavily impractical) ideal.
Similarly, if I said “X is a bad idea for Bob to do,” I meant there are better things for Bob to do with Bob’s existing limitations etc, not that if Bob should magically overcome all of his present limitations and do Herculeanly impossible tasks. And in fact I was making a claim that there are practical and real possibilities that in my lights are probably better.
I.e. ‘bad idea’ connotes much more than just ‘sub-optimal, all things considered’.
Well clearly my choice of words on a quickly fired quick take at 1AM was sub-optimal, all things considered. Especially ex post. But I think it’d be helpful if people actually argued about the merits of different strategies instead of making inferences about my racism or lack thereof, or my rudeness or lack thereof. I feel like I’m putting a lot of work in defending fairly anodyne (denotatively) opinions, even if I had a few bad word choices.
After this conversation, I am considering retreating to more legalese and pre-filtering all my public statements for potential controversy by GPT-4, as a friend of mine suggested privately. I suspect this will be a loss for the EA forum being a place where people could be honest and real and human with each other, but it’d be a gain for my own health as well as productivity.
Happy to end this thread here. On a meta-point, I think paying attention to nuance/tone/implicatures is a better communication strategy than retreating to legalese, but it does need practice. I think reflecting on one’s own communicative ability is more productive than calling others irrational or being passive-aggressive. But it sucks that this has been a bad experience for you. Hope your day goes better!
Sorry, what does “bad idea” mean to you other than “this is not the best use of resources?” Does it have to mean net negative?
I’ve sorry that you believe I misunderstood other’s positions. Or that I’m playing the “I’m being cool and rational here” card. I don’t personally think I’m being unusually cool here, if anything this is a pretty unpleasant experience that has made me reconsider whether the EA community is worth continued engagement with.
I have made some updates as well, though I need to reflect further on the wisdom of sharing them publicly.
Things can be ‘not the best’, but still good. For example, let’s say a systematic, well-run, whistleblower organisation was the ‘best’ way. And compare it to ‘telling your friends about a bad org’. ‘Telling your friends’ is not the best strategy, but it still might be good to do, or worth doing. Saying “telling your friends is not the best way” is consistent with this. Saying “telling your friends is a bad idea” is not consistent with this.
I.e. ‘bad idea’ connotes much more than just ‘sub-optimal, all things considered’.
Sorry by “best” I was locally thinking of what’s locally best given present limitations, not globally best (which is separately an interesting but less directly relevant discussion). I agree that if there are good actions to do right now, it will be wrong for me to say that all of them are bad because one should wait for (eg) a “systematic, well-run, whistleblower organisation.”
For example, if I was saying “GiveDirectly is a bad charity for animal-welfare focused EAs to donate to,” I meant that there are better charities on the margin for animal-welfare focused EAs to donate to. I do not mean that in the abstract we should not donate to charities because a well-run international government should be handling public goods provisions and animal welfare restrictions instead. I agree that I should not in most cases be comparing real possibilities against an impossible (or at least heavily impractical) ideal.
Similarly, if I said “X is a bad idea for Bob to do,” I meant there are better things for Bob to do with Bob’s existing limitations etc, not that if Bob should magically overcome all of his present limitations and do Herculeanly impossible tasks. And in fact I was making a claim that there are practical and real possibilities that in my lights are probably better.
Well clearly my choice of words on a quickly fired quick take at 1AM was sub-optimal, all things considered. Especially ex post. But I think it’d be helpful if people actually argued about the merits of different strategies instead of making inferences about my racism or lack thereof, or my rudeness or lack thereof. I feel like I’m putting a lot of work in defending fairly anodyne (denotatively) opinions, even if I had a few bad word choices.
After this conversation, I am considering retreating to more legalese and pre-filtering all my public statements for potential controversy by GPT-4, as a friend of mine suggested privately. I suspect this will be a loss for the EA forum being a place where people could be honest and real and human with each other, but it’d be a gain for my own health as well as productivity.
Happy to end this thread here. On a meta-point, I think paying attention to nuance/tone/implicatures is a better communication strategy than retreating to legalese, but it does need practice. I think reflecting on one’s own communicative ability is more productive than calling others irrational or being passive-aggressive. But it sucks that this has been a bad experience for you. Hope your day goes better!