As an aside, I dislike calling out gender like this, even with the “not always” disclaimer. Compare: “For people (usually but not always black people)” would be considered inappropriate.
I would prefer not to bring up gender at all. If someone commits sexual harassment, it doesn’t particularly matter what their gender is. And it may be true that men do it more than women, but that’s not really relevant, any more than it would be relevant if black people committed sexual harassment more than average.
And it may be true that men do it more than women, but that’s not really relevant.
It’s not that it “may be” true—it is true. I think it’s totally relevant: if some class of people are consistently the perpetuators of harm against another group, then surely we should be trying to figure out why that it is the case so we can stop it? Not providing that information seems like it could seriously impede our efforts to understand and address the problem (in this case, sexism & patriarchy).
I’m also confused by your analogy to race—I think you’re implying that it would be discriminatory to mention race if talking about other bad things being done, but I also feel like this is relevant. In this case I think it’s a bit different, however, as there’s other confounders present (e.g. black people are much more highly incarcerated, earn less on average, generally much less privileged) which all might increase rates of doing said bad thing. So in this case, it’s not a result of their race, but rather a result of the unequal socioeconomic conditions faced when someone is a certain race.
As an aside, I dislike calling out gender like this, even with the “not always” disclaimer. Compare: “For people (usually but not always black people)” would be considered inappropriate.
Would you prefer “mostly but not always?”
I think the archetypal examples of things I’m calling out is sexual harassment or abuse, so gender is unusually salient here.
I would prefer not to bring up gender at all. If someone commits sexual harassment, it doesn’t particularly matter what their gender is. And it may be true that men do it more than women, but that’s not really relevant, any more than it would be relevant if black people committed sexual harassment more than average.
It’s not that it “may be” true—it is true. I think it’s totally relevant: if some class of people are consistently the perpetuators of harm against another group, then surely we should be trying to figure out why that it is the case so we can stop it? Not providing that information seems like it could seriously impede our efforts to understand and address the problem (in this case, sexism & patriarchy).
I’m also confused by your analogy to race—I think you’re implying that it would be discriminatory to mention race if talking about other bad things being done, but I also feel like this is relevant. In this case I think it’s a bit different, however, as there’s other confounders present (e.g. black people are much more highly incarcerated, earn less on average, generally much less privileged) which all might increase rates of doing said bad thing. So in this case, it’s not a result of their race, but rather a result of the unequal socioeconomic conditions faced when someone is a certain race.