Yep, makes sense. One unfortunate and frustrating thing that I’ve noticed over the last few years is that lots that gets posted on the forum and similar gets amplified and misunderstood by many people online.
I’m quite sure that you were pretty reasonable, but I would flag that I would guess that at least some readers wouldn’t understand the nuance, and may just think something like, “I guess this user is using this as a sarcastic-like take at saying they think that Rethink’s work is low quality.” When I read your post I personally had a lot of uncertainty on where exactly you were coming from.
I’d definitely encourage you to keep on pointing things out and would probably recommend not modifying the main messages, buy may suggest that you be extra careful with the wording on such items. It kind of sucks, but that seems like one restriction of public forums like this.
Similar, to be extra clear, so this doesn’t get misinterpreted, my points are:
Feedback and comments are great! Please leave more! Don’t censor your main points, especially if they are important!
However, if they are things that could be misunderstood by some audience members in fairly impactful ways, try on the margin to make things extra clear.
Strongly agreed. In order to make myself understood to a broad audience online, I find I have to be much more sincere, straightforward, and kind than I would be in real life.
Personally, I really appreciate when other people online go out of their way to say positive things about me or my thoughts, particularly when it’s right before they disagree with or criticize me—feeling affirmed keeps me from getting defensive.
Online, you’re simultaneously speaking to many different people who come to the discussion with very different perceptions of background and context. I try to write accessibly, so that no matter your level of understanding of context and background assumptions, you can read what I’m saying and interpret it how I intended.
It’s a lot more work, and it feels weird to write with a different personality than I live, but I think it helps many more people understand what I really mean.
(I’m not trying to criticize redmoonsoaring’s comment, or say it fails to do these things, I’m just going on a tangent about communicating online)
That seems right, but I might be more inclined to push back against this kind of norm. I find on Reddit that I can be quite straightforward and brief, and people don’t downvote based on their interpretation of the feelings of the commenter. I would like to encourage that sort of norm on the EAF, rather than the norms that (as I see! and I could be wrong) focus on excessive positivity towards established views of the community as it currently stands.
I generally don’t like negativity, including negativity about negativity! (Harsh downvotes on cynical-seeming comments).
There are other times where harsh comments get a lot of upvotes; like around Leverage Research.
I think many people think that those go a bit too far and seem a bit more intense than the individuals mean. Similar to how you didn’t mean your comment to be too harsh, the downvoters probably didn’t mean to be too harsh in that signal.
That sounds right to me and seems consistent with my original comment.
Yep, makes sense. One unfortunate and frustrating thing that I’ve noticed over the last few years is that lots that gets posted on the forum and similar gets amplified and misunderstood by many people online.
I’m quite sure that you were pretty reasonable, but I would flag that I would guess that at least some readers wouldn’t understand the nuance, and may just think something like, “I guess this user is using this as a sarcastic-like take at saying they think that Rethink’s work is low quality.” When I read your post I personally had a lot of uncertainty on where exactly you were coming from.
I’d definitely encourage you to keep on pointing things out and would probably recommend not modifying the main messages, buy may suggest that you be extra careful with the wording on such items. It kind of sucks, but that seems like one restriction of public forums like this.
Similar, to be extra clear, so this doesn’t get misinterpreted, my points are:
Feedback and comments are great! Please leave more! Don’t censor your main points, especially if they are important!
However, if they are things that could be misunderstood by some audience members in fairly impactful ways, try on the margin to make things extra clear.
Strongly agreed. In order to make myself understood to a broad audience online, I find I have to be much more sincere, straightforward, and kind than I would be in real life.
Personally, I really appreciate when other people online go out of their way to say positive things about me or my thoughts, particularly when it’s right before they disagree with or criticize me—feeling affirmed keeps me from getting defensive.
Online, you’re simultaneously speaking to many different people who come to the discussion with very different perceptions of background and context. I try to write accessibly, so that no matter your level of understanding of context and background assumptions, you can read what I’m saying and interpret it how I intended.
It’s a lot more work, and it feels weird to write with a different personality than I live, but I think it helps many more people understand what I really mean.
(I’m not trying to criticize redmoonsoaring’s comment, or say it fails to do these things, I’m just going on a tangent about communicating online)
That seems right, but I might be more inclined to push back against this kind of norm. I find on Reddit that I can be quite straightforward and brief, and people don’t downvote based on their interpretation of the feelings of the commenter. I would like to encourage that sort of norm on the EAF, rather than the norms that (as I see! and I could be wrong) focus on excessive positivity towards established views of the community as it currently stands.
I generally don’t like negativity, including negativity about negativity! (Harsh downvotes on cynical-seeming comments).
There are other times where harsh comments get a lot of upvotes; like around Leverage Research.
I think many people think that those go a bit too far and seem a bit more intense than the individuals mean. Similar to how you didn’t mean your comment to be too harsh, the downvoters probably didn’t mean to be too harsh in that signal.